作者：Turd Flinging Monkey
She'll never love you
let's begin by stating a few foundational truths that will build on one another.
First, we human beings are animals. We are mammals.
And whether you're someone that believes in a God that created man and the animals, or someone that believes that we evolved from a succession of animals that became more complex overtime, there was no dispute that we share many similarities with other animals.
By examining the primitive habits and behaviors of animals we can gain valuable insight into similar human habits and behaviors.
Second, our brains, which are the primary thing that separates us from lesser animals, is wired in a way that allows our rational minds to be superseded by our more primitive instincts.
There are three layers to the brain each one built on top of the other. Each one being more advanced than the other. And each one being less influential upon our decisions and behavior than the other.
The smallest and most primitive part of the brain is called the lizard brain because it is still present in lizards today. It controls bodily functions like your heart rate, breathing, balance, as well as survival and reproductive instincts. This part of our brain is connected directly to our brain stem and the functions of it are automatic and almost completely out of our conscious control.
The second part is the emotional center of the brain known as the limbic system also called the mammalian brain. This allows us to feel emotions, record memories, and judge experiences as good or bad. It also regulates the chemicals that cause pleasure and happiness. This is the part of your brain responsible for gut feelings that you can't rationally explain.
The third and most advanced part is the neocortex, also called the primate or human brain. It is from this layer of the brain that we gain logic, abstract thought, speaking, reading, writing, awareness, and conscious control of the motor functions.
The third truth is that our instincts and emotions govern so much of our behavior that it's shocked we rarely question why we want something. We just want it, and when we have it, it gives us pleasure or happiness.
That's the limbic system manipulating you and you don't realize it and you don't fight it because they are your thoughts, aren't they?
Your thoughts, the thoughts coming from the more primitive parts of your brain, the parts of your brain responsible for emotion, memory, reproduction and even happiness have made you a slave.
They've led you and countless men before you to sacrifice yourself for nothing more than genetic reproduction.
Someone will tell you that feminism is the problem, that it's just a matter of unjust laws or communist conspiracies. They are wrong. The enemy that will betray you is your own biology.
The male bowerbird builds an intricate nest to attract a female mate. The female which only mates once a year towards the bachelor pads of these would-be suitors, chooses the most impressive one and rewards the male with sex and reproduction for his hard work. Another example of birds with similar simple behavior includes the male Eurasian Jay, which gives gifts of food to the females as a way to earn the right to reproduce.
Where did these behaviors come from? they didn't come from some bird feminist movement or social Marxist with beaks. They came from nature. Men are imprinted with an irrational desire to acquire resources, compete with one another, and sacrifice ourselves in order to attract a mate and perpetuate our genes through reproduction. Our lizard brain tells us we need to reproduce. Our limbic systems as happiness when we fulfill this imperative, but that is not rational choice, but rather primitive biological impulse.
These impulses helped our species to multiply and thrive, but not without a cost, especially to men, because we are not as valuable as women for the continuation of the species.
Imagine if 90% of the men were killed tomorrow, the remaining 10% of surviving men would be able to easily and gloriously reproduce with the women, well at least the attractive ones, to keep the species going. However if 90% of women were killed tomorrow, that would be very bad for the human race. There would be a desperate war fought to determine which men were allowed to reproduce with the remaining women. And even if humanity endured, the world would be devastated beyond repair.
This is why women are allowed to leave sinking ships and burning buildings first. It's not just an old-timey tradition harkening back to chivalry. It's a biological imperative to protect women especially attractive ones.
An attractive woman triggers a biological response in our lizard brain. We want to protect her. We want to impress her because we want to mate with her even subconsciously. It doesn't matter if you're faithfully married or gay, you will feel the desire to protect and be friendly to attractive women it's completely instinctual you can't control it.
Women can't control it either, although men are ultimately sacrificed in service to the survival of the species, women are no less slaves to their lizard brains and limbic systems. In fact their hormones make them less rational and more reliant on emotional thinking, you know in case you haven't noticed that before.
if resources are abundant. they'll seek out the male of the strongest genes, the alpha male. And likely join a harem of females that will all be impregnated by the same male like an animal version of sister wives.
若资源丰富，雌性会寻找那些拥有强势基因的雄性，也即帝王男（Alpha Male），并且很可能加入所有为这个雄性孕育后代的雌性组成的”后宫“，如同动物版的《Syster Wives》（美国某一夫多妻真人秀节目）。
The fact is that males and females have different biological drives. Men are attracted to health and fertility while women are attracted to resources and social status.
This means that men and women experience love in completely different ways, which brings me to the fourth truth — Women will never love men, at least not in the same way men love women.
Notice that men are attracted to fertility primarily via visual cues like youth and beauty which are signs of good health and good genes. The common theme is that men are wired to be attracted to the woman herself. When a man loves a woman, he loves her directly. But that's not the case with women.
Notice what women are attracted to, resources, primarily via social cues. In nature male animal competition ensures that resources go to the fittest males and those resources are an indicator of a desirable maid in primitive groups. Not only that but again the female needs more food during pregnancy and child-rearing when you consider the biological reasoning behind it. It makes perfect sense. Here's the problem. women aren't attracted to the man himself but what he has and what services he can provide to her.
请注意女人被男人的什么东西所吸引 — 资源，主要通过男人的社会地位来判断。在自然界，雄性竞争保证了资源向最强势的雄性聚集，拥有资源的雄性可以借此来得到自己理想中的配偶的“芳心”。除此之外，雌性在怀孕和哺乳期迫切需要更多的食物。仔细琢磨一下这背后的生物学道理就不难发现这是理所当然的。然而也正因如此，女人不会被男人本身所吸引，而是他所拥有的资源和他能提供的服务。
In primates, if the alpha male is overthrown, the females will simply begin having sex with the new alpha male, they don't give a shit. A woman's love and loyalty will disappear if a man is providing fewer resources than she can get somewhere else. Women don't say it like that. They have little euphemistic phrases like "I need a man that can take care of me" or "he needs to support me" or something along those lines. She's basically admitting that she's a long-term whore. She loves you as long as you're providing for her. But god forbid you become sick, unemployed or disabled and can no longer work.
They may still love you in their own way but at best it's the same kind of love someone might have for their car. The car provides them a service, and if it's a luxury car, perhaps social and emotional benefits like status pride and even happiness. This is the extent of the love a woman is capable of having for men. They'll love you until your usefulness has run out.
女人也许仍会按她们自己的方式“爱”你，但充其量相当于你对你的车的那种爱。你的车给你提供了各种便捷，如果是豪车，兴许还会给你带来社交和情感上的好处，它可以让你尽情地装逼博眼球。这就是一个女人可以做到的“爱”男人的方式 — 她们爱你，直到你的使用价值被用尽为止。