MGTOW米格道MGTOW 她永远不会爱你【双语对照版】–(二)一些建议和忠告

作者:Turd Flinging Monkey
翻译/校对:Morpheus

She'll never love you
她永远不会爱你


书接上回:MGTOW 她永远不会爱你【双语对照版】–(一)关于两性关系的四个真相

Let's say you understand all this but you really want to have children. Well, all I can say is to go into it with your eyes wide open and think of it like a business relationship, because women understand marriage and family as a business relationship.
假设你已经知晓了我之前讲的所有这些,但是你就是想传宗接代。那么我只能说请多长个心眼,把跟女人的长期关系就当成利益交换,反正女人也一直就是把婚姻和家庭当作纯粹的交易来处理的。

Understand what you're getting into and what you're trading for it. Ask yourself if this is a rational and logical decision or if you're being controlled by your more primitive instincts and impulses.
你要想清楚你这么做的后果以及你能从这笔交易中得到什么。自问一下这是否是一个合乎理性和逻辑的抉择,亦或仅仅是被你那源自更原始本能的冲动所操纵的产物。

The primitive parts of our male brain are just to make terrible deals in this arena, which is ironic because men tend to be much better businessmen outside of sexual relationships. Men are willing to put everything on the line in order to have sexual access to an attractive young female.
你作为雄性动物,大脑更原始部分经常诱导你在情场上做出各种傻逼决定,这很讽刺,因为男人在两性关系以外的领域都能做到小算盘打得溜到飞起。然而男人为了能够临幸到有吸引力的女人,却甘愿不顾一切。

But if you rationally evaluate this the reward is minus in relation to the cost, but it doesn't matter. The lizard brain is taken over. "Reproduce!" says the lizard brain. "It will make you happy" says the limbic system, meanwhile half of marriages end in divorce and men are often destroyed and commit suicide.
即便你经过冷静地的利弊分析后认为与女人的长期关系是不划算的,也没什么卵用。蜥蜴脑仍会占支配地位。”赶快去播种!” 蜥蜴脑命令道。“这会让你爽歪歪” 哺乳脑跟着随声附和。然而现实却是近乎一半的婚姻以离异收场,而男人通常成为最终的受害者,更有甚者选择一死了之。

【作者随即引述了西方国家婚姻状况的一些统计数据作为旁证,总之就是男人在婚姻中各种被艹,狼狈不堪,在此不做详述】

Men, it's time to stop thinking with your dick and to stop being a slave to your primitive reproductive urges and personally evolved. If you understand and agree with everything I've said, it's still incredibly hard to overcome your primitive instincts.
男人们,是时候停止用你的下半身思考了,是时候摆脱繁殖冲动对你的奴役了,是时候进行一场自我超越了。然而,即便你理解并同意我上面说的每一句话,做到克服你的原始本能仍然异乎寻常地困难。

In the book and movie adaptation of Frank Herbert's dune, Paul Atreides meets the Gom Jabbar to have his humanity tested. He is forced to put his hand in a box appropriately called the pain box that causes him to experience the pain of his skin blistering and burning off of his bones, if he pulls his hand out of the box as per his instincts he will be killed by a poison needle held to his neck.
在弗兰克·赫伯特的小说及其改编电影《沙丘》中,保罗·阿崔迪到戈姆·贾巴尔那去测试自己是否已经不受原始动物性支配。他被强迫把手放在一个叫“痛苦之箱”的箱子里感受皮肤起泡并从他的骨头上被烧掉的痛苦,而如果他凭借本能把手抽回去,他将被脖子上顶着的一根毒针刺死。

In order to prove his humanity, he must resist his instincts and endure the pain. After he passes the test he removes his hand and there was no physical damage, it was all in his mind.
为了能够印证自己不受动物性支配,他必须克制自己的本能并强忍疼痛。在他通过了考验之后,他把手缩回来一看,发现手上压根没有伤口,一切的痛感都是神经作用于大脑而产生。

Resisting and ultimately transcending your biological urges requires extreme discipline. While someone on a diet may resist the urge to overeat, the reproductive urge is stronger than that of survival. Animals including humans will literally kill themselves to reproduce. It's that strong.
克制并最终超越你的这种生物本能冲动需要近乎变态的自律。虽说有人能做到在减肥时克制自己不去暴饮暴食,但繁殖的冲动其实要比求生本能还要强烈。包括(男)人在内的(雄性)动物是宁可“牡丹花下死做鬼也风流”的。

Thankfully there are ways you can make this easier on yourself by satiating your urges in other ways. Women offer men essentially three things: sex, companionship, and children. If you want these things but want to limit your risks, here are some tips.
幸亏有其他方法可以疏导你的这些冲动。让我们来拆解一下,女人提供给男人的无外乎三样东西:性、陪伴,和孩子。如果你想要这些又想控制住风险,不妨让我给你指点一番。【译者注:在美国等西方国家,由于执法机构、司法系统和舆论环境等的极度女本位,与女人结婚会导致男人面临极大的法律和政治风险、经济风险、名誉风险甚至生命危险】

Sexis easy to find, but although casual sex is far less risky than marriage, it's not risk-free. you can still catch a disease or get a girl pregnant. It is safer if you simply turn to porn and get the poison out yourself.
性很容易得到,然而即便是打炮比结婚风险小得多,也不是完全可以高枕无忧。你仍可能染上性传播疾病或把一个女的肚子搞大【译者注:根据西方一些国家的法律,如果一个女的怀了你的种,基本上就等于宣告你是她以后18年的无偿饭票了】

Now anyone will tell you that porn doesn't feel the same, but technology is changing that. We have realistically feeling sex toys and virtual reality porn. In Japan they're making robots that can simulate sex. There's a lot of demand for this technology. And although society may attempt to shame men who choose this path, when you consider the divorce and suicide rates, who's the real loser?
当然,人们会告诉你撸片在体验上肯定不如真人,但是技术正在扭转这个局面。现在已经有了体验极为逼真的情趣用品和虚拟现实片子。日本都搞出能模拟性事的机器人了,而且行业需求旺盛。是,社会舆论会对那些选择这条路的男人极尽挖苦嘲讽之能事,但想想现在已婚男人的离婚和自杀率吧,到底谁TM才是真正的卢瑟?

What about companionship? Well again you have several options. The first is technology. Again, Japan isn't just the home of sex robots and porn but they also have an entire industry built on dating and relationship simulation games.
对于陪伴这块,你一样有好几个选择。第一个就是技术,这就还得说回岛国,他们不但搞性爱机器人和片子有一套,他们还有恋爱养成类模拟游戏的一整条产业链。

If you want companionship without requiring technology, just get a dog. A dog is called man's best friend for a reason. A dog will be loyal and loving to you to the bitter end without any of the baggage of bullshit that women bring.
如果你仅仅就是想要陪伴但又不想太依赖高科技,养条狗就行了。狗被称为“人类最好的朋友”是有原因的。不管你怎么时运不济,一条狗会永远对你忠诚,而且没有跟女人在一起的那些破B事。

if you just want someone to come home to that will smile and be happy to see you and that will give you love and affection without manipulation, get a dog.
如果你就是想一回到家就有人笑脸相迎,满心欢喜地看你回家,能够给予你不掺杂任何心机和算计的爱,那就也弄条狗养吧。

If you're not a pet person, then look for other mgtow in form of close circle of friends. Humans are social animals and men need companionship.
而如果宠物不是你的菜,那就试着找找其他的米格道看看能不能组成一个密友圈。人类属于群居动物,男人需要友谊。

The last thing is children. If you want children bad enough, you have to make a business decision with your eyes wide open and understand that you're walking into a minefield.
最后一样就是孩子。如果你实在是想要孩子,你就不得不去做这笔交易了,你得瞪大眼睛保持警醒,并且你要明白你这是在走进一个雷区。

A better option would be surrogacy or to become an anonymous sperm-donor if you simply want to propagate your genes. Studies have shown that a mother and a father provide the best environment for children, and although it's difficult to achieve this as a MGTOW, it's not impossible. You can hire the surrogate mother or a different woman to help you raise the child.
如果你仅仅就是想开枝散叶,那么一个更好的选择就是代孕,或者匿名去捐精。研究表明双亲环境最有利于孩子成长,虽然作为一个米格道能做到这一点很难,但也并非不可能。你可以花钱雇这个代孕母亲或者别的女人来帮你养孩子。

Just be careful about laws that might be used against you, such as common-law marriage when you can be legally declared married by the state because you have a woman living in your house. The state can also simply throw at any contracts you have with a surrogate mother, give custody of your children to her and make you pay child support.
就是得小心可能针对到你的各种法律法规,诸如普通法婚姻,你仍有可能因为有个女人在你家住就被ZF依法认定是已婚状态。ZF只需要死磕你跟这个代孕母亲之间的各种合同就行了,同时把孩子的抚养权给女方并让你掏腰包抚养。

Courts are known to avoid legal contracts, such as prenuptial agreements in order to favor women, so it might be safer simply to have no contact with the biological surrogate mother simply to protect yourself.
众所周知法庭为了偏袒女人会刻意规避婚前协议之类的法律合同,所以跟孩子的代孕生母一开始就别留下任何笔头上的协议可能才是最稳妥的做法。

You really have to ask yourself if you're willing to take these kinds of risks even in a controlled way simply to create smaller versions of yourself.
你确实得扪心自问一下是否愿意承担以上种种风险,仅仅为了传宗接代,即便是以一种相对可控的方式。

Well that's the end of this article, I hope you found it helpful in some way.
好了,就先聊到这,希望这篇文章能某种程度上对你有所帮助。

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